|How do you measure if you are successful at setting boundaries with someone?|
If they listen?
If they don’t cross the boundary again the next time?
If they don’t get mad at you?
One of my clients who is navigating a divorce and has a young child said to me about her ex husband, “I hope that if I behave this way he will too and it will make co-parenting easier and better for our child”.
I had hoped the same thing when I was co-parenting with my ex husband and we had our 2 year old (now 23!) to raise.
And there were plenty of times that I thought to myself, “Why am I bothering to do this? It isn’t working!!”
Or was it?…
In the audio link below, I share with you what I said to my client about her hope and how to measure your success with setting boundaries.
Click here to listen or to read the transcript.
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