Are unresolved conflicts driving a wedge between you and your partner?
It Doesn’t Have to Be This Way – Rediscover The Intimacy and Connection in Your Relationship
Saturday, April 5 – Sunday, April 6, 2025
Attend our 2-day relationship bootcamp in Annapolis, MD for couples and individuals – limited seats available.
“Intimacy isn’t something you have, it’s something you do. And you can learn to do it better.”
~ Terry Real
What makes a relationship great?
Most people are led to believe that the perfect relationship is a state of constant bliss, there’s no conflict, and intimacy always comes easily.
However, no relationship is like that all of the time. It’s an impossible, unrealistic goal that sets people up for disappointment and dissatisfaction.
Most, if not all, couples face challenges they feel like they can’t resolve.
Misunderstandings, miscommunications, and arguments that seem to go in circles often make partners feel disconnected. And instead of those feelings of love, trust, respect, honesty, and vulnerability they so desperately want back in their relationship…
What’s left are feelings of resentment and distance.
Feeling unappreciated.
Unheard.
And unloved.
What was once an intimate and cherishing place now feels cold and lonely.
But for couples who want to learn how to reconnect – how to cultivate authentic, deeper connections and true intimacy – there is a solution. A new way of relating. One that’s worked repeatedly – even for couples on the brink of separation.
It isn’t like traditional couple’s therapy or couple’s counseling. In fact, this method rips up the rule book. It’s designed to get to the heart of what’s causing tension between partners, and instead of simply “talking about it,” it provides actionable tools for transforming relationships and bringing back intimacy.
How do you know if this method is right for your relationship? If you resonate with any points from the checklist below, our relationship bootcamp can help…
What was once an intimate and cherishing place now feels cold and lonely.
But for couples who want to learn how to reconnect – how to cultivate authentic, deeper connections and true intimacy – there is a solution. A new way of relating. One that’s worked repeatedly – even for couples on the brink of separation.
It isn’t like traditional couple’s therapy or couple’s counseling. In fact, this method rips up the rule book. It’s designed to get to the heart of what’s causing tension between partners, and instead of simply “talking about it,” it provides actionable tools for transforming relationships and bringing back intimacy.
How do you know if this method is right for your relationship? If you resonate with any points from the checklist below, our relationship bootcamp can help…
Do You Have These Challenges in Your Relationship?
You feel like you’re the only one who knows what needs to be done at home. You’re in a cycle of frustration and disappointment. You constantly remind your partner, and you feel exhausted and overloaded mentally.
You feel like you’re walking on eggshells to avoid conflict. Innocent conversations get buried in fear of escalating into an argument. These feelings build up over time until you explode.
Intimacy feels like a distant memory. Physical and emotional connections are strained, awkward, or nonexistent.
The rules don’t seem to apply to one partner in the relationship. Instead, there are double standards, hidden expectations and lack of accountability.
Miscommunications are a regular occurrence. What you say and what your partner hears are worlds apart.
Your relationship feels more like a battle than a partnership. Instead of working as a team, you feel like you’re on opposing sides. No one is winning and your relationship is losing.
You’re caught in a cycle of blame and shame. Criticism and defensiveness in your relationship have become the norm.
You feel a constant power struggle. One of you feels overwhelmed while the other feels controlled. Each of you feel like you can’t ever “win”.
You struggle to balance your needs with the needs of the relationship. Personal goals often clash with your partner’s, and you’re no longer working as a team.
These challenges are common symptoms of a much larger issue with how most people relate to one another in intimate relationships. The skills needed to maintain a thriving relationship are not taught at a young age. While most people know that it’s critical to communicate and resolve conflicts, they often lack the tools and techniques that foster true understanding and connection.
They were never shown how to navigate the complexities of a romantic relationship effectively. Ultimately, they tend to replicate the patterns they observed growing up, whether they were healthy or not.
If you were treated harshly or with indifference as a child, you might find yourself in relationships where these cycles are being repeated in your adult relationships.
“We need to learn to speak up and speak our truth in ways that aim to save the relationship, not destroy it.”
~ Risa Ganel, LCMFT
Without the right skills, even the best intentions can lead to more conflict and distance. Effective communication, conflict resolution, and emotional intimacy are not innate abilities; they are learned skills.
Your goal as a couple isn’t to just understand your problems; you need concrete tools to dismantle destructive patterns and build a relationship based on mutual respect, effective communication, and emotional honesty.
It’s not about endless talking; it’s about a new paradigm. Unlike traditional therapy, you need a method that empowers both partners to actively participate in transforming their relationship patterns.
The dynamics in your relationship can change dramatically once you learn skills that promote (and maintain) true intimacy.
Here’s what it looks like…
It’s safe to discuss sensitive topics. You and your partner can address difficult issues without fear of escalation or judgment, there’s a sense of security and openness between you.
You communicate more effectively. Clear and compassionate communication replaces misunderstandings, ensuring you both feel heard and valued.
Conflicts are resolved respectfully and constructively. Instead of arguments that lead to resentment, conflicts become opportunities for curiosity, growth, and understanding.
You are loved for who you are. You can show up to your relationship authentically without fear.
You can rebuild and maintain emotional intimacy, enjoy regular moments of connection and vulnerability again, strengthen your bond, and keep your relationship vibrant.
You feel a renewed magnetism. Increased emotional closeness can foster a desire to be physically close and sexual with your partner.
You balance individual needs with relationship needs. Your personal goals and aspirations can coexist harmoniously, fostering mutual support and interdependence..
You eliminate the blame and shame cycle. Constructive feedback and positive reinforcement replace criticism and defensiveness. You both feel supported, not attacked.
You navigate power struggles with grace. Both of you feel empowered and respected – leading to a more equitable and loving relationship.
The connection deepens, and the trust and love between you and your partner strengthen, giving you a fulfilling and enduring relationship, even during the inevitable ups and downs of daily life.
If that sounds like the relationship you want with your partner, I invite you to attend our two-day relationship bootcamp
April 5th and 6th, 2025.
Introducing the Relationship Bootcamp
Transform your relationship by joining the 2-Day Relationship Bootcamp in Annapolis, MD.
This intensive workshop is designed to equip couples and individuals with the essential skills and techniques to transform the health of ALL their relationships.
The Relationship Bootcamp will teach you techniques based on Relational Life Therapy (RLT).
RLT, developed by world-renowned therapist Terry Real, focuses on fostering genuine connection and resolving deep-rooted relationship issues. Unlike traditional therapy, in which the therapist does not “take sides,” RLT addresses both partners’ contributions, role, and behaviors and their impact on the relationship.
It emphasizes the importance of mutual respect, effective communication, and emotional honesty. You will also learn to recognize and break destructive patterns in your relationship, creating a more balanced and loving partnership.
This bootcamp is best for couples who want to unite and transform their relationship into something more connected, intimate, and fulfilling. By attending with your partner, you can actively participate in learning and applying the techniques, supporting your work together towards a stronger bond.
This bootcamp isn’t group or couples therapy. It’s an educational workshop, where you will have the opportunity to learn a new paradigm for relating. It’s a unique, dynamic opportunity for you and your partner to come together and apply techniques that will help you.
Couples and individuals of all ages, races, and sexual orientations are welcome.
If you can only attend as an individual, you can still gain invaluable insights and techniques from the experience. While working together with your partner is ideal, the knowledge you gain can help you better understand your role in your relationship pattern and provide you with tools to use within your relationship after the workshop. You will be equipped to make positive changes independently, which can still lead to significant improvements.
Therapists are also encouraged to join as you can deepen your understanding of RLT and apply these techniques in your relationship. By participating in the Relational Bootcamp, you will learn how to integrate the same core fundamentals that you will use to guide your clients.
Event Schedule
Date: Saturday, April 5 – Sunday, April 6, 2025
Location: Graduate Annapolis Hotel, Annapolis, MD
Time: 9:30 AM – 5:30 PM both days
Day 1
Foundations of Relational Life Therapy
Overview of Relational Living: Learn the core principles of living relationally to enhance mutual respect and connection.
Building Healthy Self-esteem and Boundaries: Understand the importance of self-worth and psychological boundaries to foster a supportive relationship.
The Relationship Grid: Use this tool to identify where you and your partner stand in your worst moments and how to move beyond this as a team.
Five Losing Strategies in a Relationship: Recognize and eliminate destructive patterns that harm your relationship.
Understanding Your Inner Adaptive Child and the Wise Adult: Learn to manage your inner adaptive child and embrace your wise adult for healthier interactions.
Day 2
Building a Stronger Connection
Understanding the Core Negative Image: Identify and address the negative perceptions that impact your relationship.
Five Winning Strategies for a Relationship: Implement effective strategies to strengthen and nurture your partnership.
Integrate the Feedback Wheel: Practice an effective way to have honest and open conversations about conflicts within your relationship.
Time Outs: Learn how to put a stop to escalating arguments in a way that is supportive of your connection, instead of eroding it
Keep It Going After the Bootcamp: Develop a plan to maintain and build on your progress during the workshop.
Meet Your Facilitators
Risa Ganel
LCMFT, Columbia, MD
Licensed in both Maryland and Virginia as a Couple and Family Therapist, and a Certified Relational Life Therapist and Trainer for the Relational Life Institute, Risa sees couples and individuals in-person and on-line.
Her gifts blend wisdom with quiet strength and relationship science with empathic connection. She is skilled at being kind and fierce in the same breath, helping her clients connect to the truth to transform conflict into connection.
Risa also facilitates Relationship Health through 2 Day Couples Intensives, Relationship Bootcamps, traditional weekly Couples Therapy, and public speaking engagements.
Katharine Petzold
LCSW-C , Easton, MD
Katharine is a skilled therapist and facilitator passionate about helping individuals and couples build stronger, more fulfilling relationships.
Certified in Relational Life Therapy and with a warm, dynamic and engaging approach, Katharine creates a safe, supportive environment for participants to explore their relational patterns, learn new skills, and experience profound personal growth. You deserve to show up as your best self—your loved ones deserve that from you, too.
Reserve Your Spot Today
The regular ticket price is $895 per person. However, if you buy your tickets today, you can save more through early bird and plus-one pricing.
This bootcamp works best if you bring your partner with you as both of you can participate in the activities and strengthen your relationship. For that reason, you will receive a discount for your plus one when you purchase an individual ticket. (You can purchase a plus-one ticket for anyone you choose to bring with you – partner, friend, adult child etc. if you choose not to bring your partner)
Early bird pricing (Through February 27th) for an individual ticket (attending alone) is $795, you save $100.
Plus one early bird pricing for the second ticket is $595, a total of $400 in savings.
Remember, our early bird pricing will only last until February 27th, 2025, and then the price returns to $895 per person.
Bring a Plus One
(Spouse, family, friend)
$795 first ticket,
$595 second ticket
($400 in savings total)
Only 24 spots available. Spaces are filling up quickly; once they fill up, you will have to wait until the Fall of 2025 for our next event!
Claim Your Early Bird Seat Today and
Receive a BONUS follow-up Bootcamp Zoom Q&A with Risa and Katharine
This free bonus session will allow you and your partner to ask Risa and Katharine any questions you have about RLT and how you can apply these techniques to your relationship. However, early bird registration only lasts until February 27th, so claim your early bird tickets and your bonus Q&A now before the bonus is gone and prices return to $895 a ticket.
FAQs
We understand that schedules can be challenging. If you can't make the dates for this bootcamp, don't
worry. We offer future workshops and will notify you of upcoming dates. We only run bootcamps twice
per year, and so we encourage you to register now so you don’t have to wait.
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Yes, whether you're dating, have been together for decades, or somewhere in between, our workshop is
designed to help all couples in a committed relationship. The techniques and skills taught in the
bootcamp apply to all stages of a relationship and can help improve communication, resolve
conflicts, and deepen intimacy.
We welcome and include LGBTQ+ couples and individuals as the relational frameworks taught in the
bootcamp apply to all relationships regardless of background or orientation.
This workshop is NOT suitable for relationships where there is active physical abuse, addictions or affairs. If you are experiencing any of these crises in your relationship, please seek the assistance of a therapist local to you before attending this type of workshop.
It's common for one partner to feel hesitant. We encourage open communication about the benefits of the workshop. Have your partner join our newsletter, where they can get access to more materials on strengthening their relationship with RLT. You can also have them read this page to learn more about the event.
Terry Real is a renowned therapist and developer of Relational Life Therapy (RLT). He is known for helping couples and individuals transform their relationships through direct and effective techniques. He has authored four books: I Don’t Want to Talk About It, How Can I Get Through to You?, The New Rules of Marriage, and US. Terry Real's approach emphasizes mutual respect, effective communication, and emotional honesty, helping couples break destructive patterns and build healthier, more fulfilling relationships.
Not at this time.
Yes, participation in the activities is essential to gain the full benefit of the workshop. Engaging in the exercises and discussions will provide you with practical experience and deeper insights into the techniques being taught and help you with your relationships as well.
Attendees from both near and far are welcome. Travel and lodging is not included, therefore, you will need to make your own travel and hotel accommodations.
After each day of the Relationship Bootcamp in Annapolis, MD, you and your partner can immerse yourselves in a city rich with opportunities to reconnect and rekindle your intimacy. Stroll along the picturesque waterfront and enjoy intimate dinners at cozy restaurants while admiring breathtaking views of the Chesapeake Bay. Explore charming historical sites hand in hand, like the Maryland State House or the quaint streets lined with colonial architecture. For a more adventurous experience, embark on a sailing excursion, navigating the tranquil waters together. Whether you're savoring fresh seafood, discovering local art galleries, or simply enjoying moments of quiet reflection in beautiful surroundings, Annapolis provides the perfect backdrop for you both to deepen your bond and rediscover your love.
Yes. You can self-park or valet park at the Bootcamp venue, Graduate Annapolis Hotel. Gotts Court Garage is also nearby. Street parking may be available. (Please make sure to read ALL signs, as there are limits due to the residential area.)
Much time, love, and energy are put into each workshop. Not just during the event but in the many weeks before each event. With this in mind, please note the following cancellation policy:
- 6+ weeks notice: $50 fee per individual/$100 fee per couple
- 4+ weeks notice: $150 fee per individual/$300 fee per couple
- 2+ weeks notice: $275 fee per individual/$525 fee per couple
- 13 days or less notice: no refund offered- no exceptions.
- Registration and payment can be transferred to a future workshop (minus a 10% fee) up to 2 weeks before the event. Participants are limited to one transfer per registration (i.e., you cannot transfer more than once). Transfers will not be offered with less than 2 weeks' notice.
Payment options are available through Stripe and Paypal. Payment plans are not currently available.
Build a Stronger and More Intimate Future with Your Partner Today
Secure your spot in our upcoming 2-Day Relationship Bootcamp today before spaces run out.
Register by February 27, 2025, and you’ll also receive access to a BONUS follow-up Bootcamp Zoom Q&A with Risa and Katharine.
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